Impossible to get brand approval

Hello, I’m a new seller. I’ve been trying to get brand approval for over than a month. I’ve contacted over a dozen brands. I’ve their authorized distributors account all setup and ready to go but brands themselves aren’t giving direct approval. Every email that I’ve received has said the following: “Please be advised that this email does not authorize Amazon vendors to purchase & re-sell our products online, even if they are purchased through distribution channels. We are not authorizing any Amazon re-sellers at this time.” This has been nothing but disappointing. I don’t want to list products without direct approval cuz I dont want them complaining later on and Amz to suspend my account. I feel like half of Amz sellers are selling without approval and will get suspend or worse any day Amz wants to.

Am I overthinking too much on brand approval? How are you guys getting brand approval?